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The V-day vibe is completely different when you’re coupled up

Valentine’s day usually doesn’t even cross my mind and here I am thinking about it as soon as I wake up!

I’m not expecting too much from my bf. In fact, the right thing to do is for us both to carry our load in making v-day special. But, more than anything, I think it should be a time where we acknowledge that we care for each other and how we both make a special contribution to each other’s lives.

BF, don’t worry too much about making v-day special. Not only is it early days, and going all out would be slightly kitsch and ridiculous, we don’t yet have the history for the day to really mean something. At this point its just kinda like going through the motions.

So just let me know that I’m special and that you care about me, and I’ll be sanctified and satisfied. I’ll do the same ❤️ (and maybe send me some money for a good meal 🤣🤣🤣)

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Ursula Addison

Computer Scientist / Researcher

I’m Ursula, some know me as Addison, Ukume or Uku (a nod to my Nigerian roots). I was inspired to make this blog to catalogue the many adventures I hope to have or not have 🤣 This is not so much a narrative intended for strangers looking to fill a void in their lives by fixating on others, but rather as an opportunity for the people I meet on my winding road to learn a bit more about me. Here, I’ll log my escapades and thoughts on life and science.

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